Even This

^“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”  Romans 8:28 NIV

October 2015 will forever be a memorable month for my co-mother (my son’s mother-in-law…but that sounds too impersonal, she is much more than that…she is my friend and the future grandmother of my grandchildren!).  

 

 On October 1st Dianna had open heart surgery to replace her aortic valve.  Although the surgery went well, something happened to cause her not to wake up for three days after the surgery and to have a seizure.  Her family struggled terribly through this time, drowning in unanswered questions and heart-gripping fear.

 

 

Then on October 4th she finally woke up! But after a few hours her family realized that something was still terribly wrong…Dianna did not know them and she had no memory of where she was or what had happened. It was a scary time for everyone, including Dianna because she was having terrible hallucinations (a side effect from one of her medications).  Over the next few days she grew stronger physically, but she struggled with her memory and hallucinations for more than a week. 

On October 13th Dianna got to come home from the hospital! But she was still struggling with her memory.  She didn’t recognize the roads or towns along the route home, not even her daughter’s house.  This was still scary for her and her family…there was always that little question in the back of everyone’s minds, “will she ever truly be herself again?” 

On October 15th  God showed me that HE is large and in charge and there is NOTHING impossible for Him.  When I sat and talked with Dianna on this day, I saw the light in her eyes and heard her talk about memories from the past that none of us could even recall.  She had been completely restored mentally!         

So many times in my life I have seen the miracle of Romans 8:28 unfolding before my eyes…especially in this past month.  Even though there have been lots of very scary and bad moments, God has brought so many good things out of this situation.  They are still unfolding day by day…but here are just a few:  a quick diagnosis (God placed the right doctor in the right place at exactly the right time),  a miraculous recovery and restoration of Dianna’s mind (like I said…she remembers things that no one else can), new and re-newed relationships with Jesus for several family members, the revealing of incredible maturity and spiritual strength in Dianna’s children, encounters with angels, increased prayer time for many of us and stronger faith for all of us.

Although this has been a terrible experience that I wish my sweet friend and her family would never have had to go through, God was able to take what satan meant for harm (his evil purpose was to steal, kill and destroy) and brought so much good out of it.  And just like Joseph was able to say to his brothers after they had tried to destroy him…Dianna can shout out to the devil,

“ You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.”  Genesis 50:20   

 

 

Today is Dianna’s birthday…and what a great cause to celebrate!!!  She has survived satan’s greatest attack and has triumphed through the POWER of GOD!  I know that the Lord will use her testimony to reach countless people.  We praise Him for working ALL THINGS together for her good….even this.   

The Battle is the Lord's

How many of us feel like we are always in a battle with someone or something?  It seems sustained periods of peace are few and far between in this world.  The battles that each of us face can be very different but equally grueling: they can be spiritual, emotional or physical; internal or external; short lived or never ending.   Right at this very moment you may be in the midst of any number of skirmishes involving work/school/church related conflicts, family problems, health or mental issues, monetary dilemmas, home/vehicle troubles and the list goes on and on…and on.  But great news!  I have a message for you today that should bring you total peace and harmony. You do not need to fight!  The Lord has your back!    

I want you to open your bible, your bible app or get on your computer and look up 2 Chronicles 20.  I want you to read verses 1-30.  When you are done, please continue reading! 

King Jehoshaphat was warned that three armies had declared war on his kingdom and he was terrified.  Along with his community, he began to beg the Lord for guidance through fasting and prayer, admitting that they were powerless against such a mighty enemy and that they were not equipped to handle the problem.  Then the Lord spoke through the prophet Jahaziel in verses 15-17 and said, “Do not be afraid! Don’t be discouraged by this mighty army, for the battle is not yours, but God’s.   Tomorrow, march out against them. You will find them coming up through the ascent of Ziz at the end of the valley that opens into the wilderness of Jeruel.  But you will not even need to fight. Take your positions; then stand still and watch the Lord’s victory. He is with you, O people of Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid or discouraged. Go out against them tomorrow, for the Lord is with you!”  

King Jehoshaphat and all the people began to worship and praise the Lord for what He was about to do in their lives.  The next morning as they readied for battle, the king appointed singers to walk ahead of his army to praise and worship the Lord as they went.  And something amazing happened in the midst of the praise:  the Lord caused their enemies to start fighting amongst themselves.  They turned on each other and every last man was destroyed.  When the army of Judah arrived, there was no one left to fight against.  And as an added bonus, there was so much equipment, clothing and valuables left behind it took them three days to collect it all.  The Lord had held true to His word. 

He had fought the battle for them.

In this passage of scripture I see three things that we can learn from how King Jehoshaphat reacted when he faced an impending battle.  First, he sought the Lord for guidance (he PRAYED). He didn’t panic, worry, call all of his friends and ask them what to do, google his problem to see what the internet had to say or read a self-help book.  He immediately prayed and begged the Lord for guidance.

Next, he PRAISED and worshipped the Lord.  He had faith that the Lord was going to do what He said and he praised Him in advance!  He didn’t wait until the battle was over to see if God was really going to take care of things, he praised Him through it all. 

Finally, he PROFITED. King Jehoshaphat and his army did not have to lift a finger in this battle, the Lord went before them and took care of everything. The blessings that they received through trusting God’s plans were even greater than they could have ever imagined!  Romans 8:28 tells us that ALL things work together for good for those that love Him and have been called according to His purpose. The Lord wants good for us, we just need to trust in His plans and His timing.           

I can’t imagine what kind of destruction King Jehoshaphat would have caused to his nation if he had not sought the Lord before this battle.  We will face that same kind of destruction if we don’t seek the Lord to fight our battles for us.  The bible has warned us that we have an enemy that has set out to steal, kill and destroy us in any way that he can. (John 10:10)  The only way to have victory is to give it all to the Lord. Today He is telling His children the same thing He told Jehoshaphat…

Do not be afraid! Don’t be discouraged, for the battle is not yours, but God’s. Take your positions; then stand still and watch the Lord’s victory. He is with you.

PRAY for guidance, PRAISE Him through it all and then you will PROFIT with victory and blessings! 

We Saw God at Church Camp

I know that every year I say that church camp was amazing and couldn’t get any better…but this year something was different.  I really cannot put my finger on it, I just know something was different.  I have attempted many times to begin to put into words what we experienced, but I just cannot seem to explain it with mere words.  (I hate to use the phrase, “you just had to be there,” but you kind of did.)  SO instead of me telling you what happened, I thought I would share a few quotes by some of our teenagers…

 

“this past weekend has been a real eye opener, and I am so very blessed that I attended. I couldn't be more grateful to have such an amazing group of people to be there when I need them. Hearts were changed and relationships were mended throughout this camp, so many laughs were shared and tears were shed but so worth getting to worship and grow closer to God with a youth group like this. Thank you to the sponsors for taking the time and working so hard for all of us and a special thank you to @thedavidfarren for coming to lead us in worship, so very grateful for all of you.”

 

“My heart is so full, and I am becoming a better inspiration and bigger leader than ever before. I am blessed to not only have these people in my life but the rest of our youth group as well. It is our job, now, to hold each other accountable for the decisions we make daily. I love each and every one of you, and I cannot express my readiness for the changes that are taking place. God showed up and showed out this weekend, that's for sure.”

“My life is forever changed. My heart is so much fuller and there's so much weight lifted off my shoulders. This weekend church camp changed me for the better, and I can't thank my friends enough for inviting me. I love you all so much and above all I love God more than anything now.”

“Church camp was amazing. Came home with a full heart and NO TURNING BACK. I love my church family soooo much.”

 

"I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back. (Philippians 3:13-14 MSG) God definitely did some amazing things in all of our hearts this past weekend, and I pray that everyone continues on the path God has set out for them, though we may stumble and Fall, we must remember we ARE NOT alone. I love this entire group so much. Thank you for allowing me to come with y'all!"

 

(Hebrews 12:1) "Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us" Now, if you’re like me, you spend your whole life in church being confused about something, but you're too afraid to ask anyone what it means. With this particular verse I always wanted to know, "who are the witnesses?!" I got my answer at church camp this year; our “witnesses” are the believers who have already went to be with the Lord.”

 

As you can see...lives were changed.  The only thing that I can compare it to would be the Day of Pentecost...when the Holy Spirit fell on the people and everyone was changed. 

[Acts 2:1-4 NLT] "On the day of Pentecost all the believers were meeting together in one place.  Suddenly, there was a sound from heaven like the roaring of a mighty windstorm, and it filled the house where they were sitting.  Then, what looked like flames or tongues of fire appeared and settled on each of them.  And everyone present was filled with the Holy Spirit and began speaking in other languages, as the Holy Spirit gave them this ability." 

We did not speak in different languages...but our kids (and some adults) changed before our eyes and began to speak their testimonies in front of everyone with  great boldness.  It was pretty amazing...we saw God at church camp. 

 

I Saw God at Church Camp

by: Sherri Mayo 8/4/15

 

I saw God at church camp, when so many hands were raised

In worship to their Father: not embarrassed, not ashamed

 

I saw God at church camp, when I prayed over a doubting soul

She came alive right before my eyes, then proclaimed her salvation to all

 

I saw God at church camp, when He increased my faith

He used a needle in a haystack to prove His power that day

 

I saw God at church camp, in the tears of a broken child

In the sharing of her struggles and her boldness to walk the aisle

 

I saw God at church camp, when a whole family was restored

Forgiveness overcame the hurt through the power of the Lord

 

I saw God at church camp, when the shyest boys I know

Held nothing back, stood up and went to pray with a struggling soul

 

I saw God at church camp, when my own timid child

Began to speak out boldly and transformed before my eyes

 

I saw God at church camp do things that I couldn’t have dreamed

He impacted each and every life in a way I can’t even explain

 

I saw God at church camp, in each sweet tear-stained face

Who left that place on fire for God, determined to finish the race

 

I saw God at church camp, He made His presence known

We may not have been at Pentecost, but it’s as close as we’ve ever come.   

 

 

 

 

When You Fail a Test

When I was in school, I was definitely an overachiever/perfectionist.  My goal was to always make the highest grade in the class...so failing a test was not an option for me. (I still have nightmares about pop quizzes that I don't have the answers to.)  If I did happen to do badly on a test, I would always ask the teacher if there was anything that I could do...like re-take the test or do some extra credit.   Sometimes they would give me a second chance, sometimes they would not.  

 

 

As Christians, God's word tells us that we will be tested for various reasons: in order to strengthen our faith (James 1) or in order to prove our faith (1 Peter 1).   But what happens when we fail a test?  Can we ask our "teacher" for extra credit or maybe even a re-take?  My overachieving self sure believes that we can.  Why do I believe that?  Because last weekend, I failed a test.  In the midst of "doing the Lord's work" I neglected to minister to someone that the Lord placed before me.  For the sake of privacy, I will not give you all of the details, but trust me when I say, I failed this test miserably. 

 

My test was presented on a day that was one of  those hectic, crazy days that actually started at 5:00 am.  I couldn't sleep for thinking about all that I had to get done over the next two days, so I got up and got started. I had a to-do list a mile long that exhausted me just thinking about it (the work of the church is never done, right??).  After several hours of running around and doing some actual manual labor, I plopped down into my car to drive home.  Before I even had time to put the car into "drive",  God handed me my "test paper" back with a big huge "F" on it.  He immediately brought to my mind the test he had placed before me and I knew instantly what I had done wrong.  When I got home, I prayed, confessed and asked for forgiveness...but I still felt bad.  So I asked for a little "extra credit" work.  I told God if He would let me live until the next day, as soon as I could, I would make this right.      

 

Some that I told about my epic fail thought that I was being too hard on myself.  They know my heart and know that my slight was not intentional.  But God also knows my heart...and He created a desire in me to always strive for His perfection.  God's bulls eye is ULTIMATE PERFECTION through CHRIST.  When I missed that mark, that was sin. But when I confessed, God was faithful and just and forgave my sin...and cleansed me from all unrighteousness.(1 John 1:9)  He even gave me an opportunity to make things right by allowing me to bless the person that I neglected.  He worked it all together for good.  (Romans 8:28) 

 

So what do we do when we fail a test (and we ALL will at some point)?  Confess, ask for forgiveness and if possible...request a re-take or some extra credit work!!  I don't think God would ever say no to that request...He is a God of second chances (read about Jonah, Paul, Moses or David)  Don't beat yourself up.  Move forward and try to see the failure as an opportunity to grow your faith.  God knows that we will never be perfect this side of Heaven, but He expects us to set that as our goal. 

 

^" Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me."  Phil 3:12 

My Life Changer - Graduation Edition

“There will always be a reason why you meet people. Either you need them to change your life or you’re the one that will change theirs.”  My friend sent me this quote one day.  My response was, “or maybe both.”  I have been blessed with so many amazing life-changers along the way, but one of the most important is my daughter, Maddie.   

 

From the moment she was born, she was so attached to me.  When she became a toddler, she was my shadow.  Everywhere I went, she went.  Everything I did, she did.  Everything I said, she said.  If I turned around too fast I would step on her.  I learned very quickly that I had better be a good example because there was this little person mimicking everything that I did.

 When she was about four, I remember her begging to come into my room while I was studying for a bible class that I was teaching at the time.  I would always tell her, “Go play, Mommy needs to study!”  She would cry and say, “I will be real quiet.  I want to study, too.”  So I would let her in and she would have her little bible and notebook and watch me read and study, then she would pretend to read and study.  What a sobering moment.  I held all the power in my hands to mold her into a strong woman of God by modeling for her what that was. 

 

When Maddie started school, she was introduced to bullies.  Of course as a parent, your first response is retaliation.  When your baby comes home crying day after day, you want them to defend themselves.  One day in anger I said, “If she hits you again, you better hit her back!”   Do you know what her response was?   “Mama, I can’t do that.  That is not right.”  Another sobering moment.  (Sometimes we hate when our kids speak our words back to us!!  )  But she was correct.  Retaliation is never the answer.  God is over the revenge department, not us.  "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord." Romans 12:19 NIV

  

 

 

Now my little shadow has grown into an independent, strong, mature young woman. In just a few days she will be graduating from High School and then going away to college in the fall. This time in our lives is so bittersweet. It is sad because I will miss my baby, but it is also so exciting to see what God has planned for her future.  Having her for a daughter has definitely changed my life.  Knowing that she would pattern her life after mine has caused me to be a better Christian, a better mother, a better friend and a better wife.

 

 

 

 

Today, I want to encourage every parent that is reading this to remember that the eyes of your children are always watching you and learning from everything that you do.   If you want to have God-fearing, loving, obedient and respectful children you must be God-fearing, loving, obedient and respectful.  Children will not become who you TELL them to be, they will become who you SHOW them to be. 

 

 “Train up a child in the way he should go;

even when he is old he will not depart from it.” 

 Proverbs 22:6 ESV

A Mother’s Day Letter to All of My Children

I have the most amazing children:  Two that I gave birth to and one that became our daughter through marriage.  Words cannot begin to describe my love for them.  They are all different and they all contribute wonderful things to my life. 

To Cody, my precious son…I always tell people that you were our “guinea pig” child.  We had absolutely no idea what we were doing when you came along, but by the grace of God you turned out more amazing than I could have ever dreamed of.  I am so proud of the young man that you have grown up to be.   You are a wonderful husband, a great friend, a Godly example, a hard worker and provider and the best son in the world!  I know that you would do anything for us and that makes me feel so loved and cherished. And THANK YOU for marrying Rebekah.  She is the perfect woman for you…God definitely had His hand in that!   

To Maddie, my beautiful daughter…I know that all of your life you have felt that we were so much harder on you than we were on Cody, but we learned from the mistakes we made parenting him so we were much better at it when you came along!  I cannot tell you how proud I am of you.  You have come such a looooong way from that little girl who couldn’t let me out of her sight.  I looked back in one of my prayer journals the other day and it was filled with prayer requests for you.  God answered those prayers and gave me the desires of my heart…a strong, beautiful, independent and Godly young woman.   I admire the way that you stick to your standards that you have set for yourself and do not let anyone sway you.  Thank you for your obedience and the respect that you give to us.  You have always been someone that I look up to…even though I am the mom.  I am so excited to see what your future holds!! 

To Rebekah, my treasured daughter-in-love…from the moment Cody met you, he knew that you were the one for him.  I couldn’t have designed a better wife for my son.  You compliment him so wonderfully.  I love you just as much as if you were carried in my womb.  You are so loving and kind to us and I adore the way that you love my son.  Thank you for accepting us as your parents and being such a great daughter to us.   You are a Godly young woman and that means the more to me than anything. Our future grandchildren will be so blessed to have you as a mother!!  (And I know that the car accident that you both suffered through was terrible, but the good that came of it was the bond that was formed between your family and ours. We love them all so much.)  I am so proud to tell people what an amazing wife my son has! 

And to all of the children that we have had the privilege of being a part of your lives…our nieces and nephews, Chris’ baseball boys, friends of our children, and all of the teenagers that we have ministered to over the years…I love each and every one of you so very much.  I thank God that he allowed me to share in your lives.   I am honored that some of you still call me “Mom” (or Mommy) when you see me or talk to me.  I hope that you all know how much you mean to Chris and I and that we will always be here for you!

 

 

Thank you all for making me the richest mother on earth.  My heart overflows with love for you all!  I will have a Happy Mother’s Day because God has blessed me beyond measure.       

Red and Yellow, Black and White

 

Jesus loves the little children

All the children of the world

Red and yellow, black and white

They are precious in His sight

Jesus loves the little children of the world

 

I remember singing these words as a child.  I've thought about those words a lot lately.  Without going into detail (because I do not want to draw attention to any of these groups) it seems that racism is alive and well in our country and our town today.  Groups of every skin color and religion are spewing hatred for people that are different from them. I just do not understand how one human being can have hatred for another human being based solely on the color of their skin or what they look like on the outside. It is ridiculous really. The body that we are in is no different than a suit of clothing.  The only thing that matters is who we are on the inside of the suit.

 

 

 

  How absolutely absurd would it be for me to say..."I hate that guy because he is wearing a green suit.  I have never met him, but I hate him. And not only do I hate him, but I want you to hate him, too.  As a matter of fact, I hate anyone that wears a green suit."      

 

Ridiculous, right?  

 

And what is even more ridiculous? When people use God's word to promote hate.  My bible says that God created ALL human beings.  It also says that Jesus died for ALL human beings. 

And more importantly, it says this,

 

"There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.   If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise."  Galatians 3:28-29    

 

God is love.  He loves every person that he created. In fact, we are all created in His image.  He sent His son to die for us, that is how much He loves mankind.  And through our acceptance of the death of Jesus, we become brothers and sisters with one common goal.  

 

^" Consequently, you are no longer foreigners and strangers, but fellow citizens with God’s people and also members of his household, built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Christ Jesus himself as the chief cornerstone. In him the whole building is joined together and rises to become a holy temple in the Lord. And in him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit."

Ephesians 2:19-22

 

Red, yellow, black or white we are ALL precious in His sight. Therefore, we should be precious in the eyes of one another. 

 

 

 

Straddling the Fence

During a sermon at church one day, our pastor talked about Christians who were “straddling the fence”.  This brought to my mind one particular afternoon in my childhood when my brother and I were out exploring behind our farm house.  There were barbed wire fences outlining all of the separate pastures, so to get across the fences we would take turns prying two of the prickly strands apart for the other to crawl through. This took patience and precision!  On this particular day, I let my brother through first and then he pried the strands of wire open for me to crawl through.  I carefully bent over at the waist and put one leg through, placing my foot on the ground on the other side.  As I attempted to pull the other leg through, I realized that my long pony tail was caught on the top strand and that I was stuck…I was literally straddling that barbed wire fence! 

 

 

 

 Now just imagine how uncomfortable that was being trapped there atop that razor sharp barbed wire with one leg on each side.  I couldn’t go back the way I came from and I couldn’t move forward to the other side.  Isn’t this just like the Christians that want to keep one foot in the old way of life and one foot in their new life with Christ?  They are stuck.  They cannot be fully surrendered to either side. 

 

 

Imagine that one side of this fence is the old sinful life…pre-salvation.  Sometimes newly converted (and sometimes not-so-newly converted) Christians try to hold on to their past lives of sin, even after giving their heart to Jesus.  But because the Holy Spirit is residing in them, they do experience conviction.  This makes it pretty miserable for them every time they slide back into their old ways.  As a Christian, going back to visit the sins of the past will never make them happy.  Therefore, they are not fully surrendered to sin. 

 

John 16:8 NLT “And when He comes [Holy Spirit], he will convict the world of its sin, and of God’s righteousness, and of the coming judgment.”

 

On the other side of this fence is a new life in Christ…post-salvation.  Many Christians see others that have peace and joy and seem to flourish in the Lord’s work, but they just can’t get to that place in their walk because the old familiar sin keeps them tied to their old life.  They are afraid of change; afraid to step over into the unknown.  Therefore, they are not fully surrendered to God.

 

Romans 6:22-23 NIV “ But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

 This is a very uncomfortable position to be in.  The bible tells us in Matthew 6:24 "No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other.”  Christians straddling the fence are trying to serve two masters and they are miserable.  Why would anyone choose to live this way? 

As I crouched there that day, stuck between those strands of barbed wire with my hair holding me in place, all I wanted was to be free. I think that’s what “Fence-Straddling Christians” want too…they want to be free.  My brother was there to help me and untangle me from that fence.  He pulled me through to freedom on the other side.  I believe our job as Christians is to help our brothers and sisters get free. We need to stop judging and start praying…just as scripture instructs us to do.

I John 5:14-16 NIV “This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him. If you see any brother or sister commit a sin that does not lead to death, you should pray and God will give them life.”

Are you straddling the fence, stuck between two lives?  Ask the Lord to rescue you today.  Move forward with Him and He will give you peace and freedom like you have never known. Or maybe you know someone that needs your help getting off of that fence?  Commit to pray for them today. Help them get untangled from sin by loving them and being a good example.  Freedom is waiting on the other side of the fence.